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After the
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Rebuilding After Loss, Identity Shifts, and Major Life Changes

A grounded podcast about life after grief, career pivots, heartbreak, and unexpected disruption, and how to move forward with clarity instead of reaction.

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If you’re asking who you are now, or how to rebuild after everything changed, begin with the conversation that fits your moment.

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Latest Episode

Grief Is an Identity Shift With Donielle Young

May 19, 2026 • 54 mins

 

For the first time, Erika has a guest. Donielle Young, the Grief Disruptor, joins her for a raw conversation about the loss nobody names: the loss of who you were before. They cover the G3 Method, joy and guilt, high-functioning grief, and what to say to the woman whose grief nobody brought a casserole for. Every kind of loss belongs here.

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A biweekly reflection for adults navigating life after grief, divorce, career pivots, and identity shifts.

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About Erika Hernandez

Erika Hernandez is the host of Purpose, Not Pity and the founder of the Built Anyway philosophy, the belief that when life fractures the blueprint, you build anyway.

After navigating personal loss, identity shifts, and professional reinvention, she began asking more precise questions about what rebuilding requires. Not motivation. Not performance. Clarity.

 

With over two decades in leadership and creative strategy, Erika approaches life after loss the same way she approaches business: structured, intentional, and steady.

 

This podcast is for adults in the middle, functioning, capable, recalibrating. It’s not about replaying pain. It’s about choosing who you become next.

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The work doesn’t stop at listening. Here’s where to go next.

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Have a lived experience around rebuilding after loss, career pivots, divorce recovery, or identity shifts?

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We host thoughtful conversations grounded in reflection, not performance.

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Read the Blog

Explore deeper reflections on decision-making after disruption, emotional maturity, starting over, and clarity after loss.

Structured writing. No noise.

Work With Erika

Purpose, Not Pity is part of the Build Anyway philosophy.

For speaking, partnerships, or creative strategy work, explore how we collaborate.

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